When I heard the news of Al Eltholtz’s passing, I was reminded of the unique connection one can have with a “casual acquaintance.” I, like so many others, met Al at the grocery store. If you took the time to speak to him, you realized he was not from around here, but he was no stranger.

Al was proud of his New Jersey roots, but never seemed judgmental of “our” town.

He truly wanted to know your story and listened as if he knew you all his life.There were not many topics you did not feel comfortable talking to him about. This “outsider” had the gift of earning your trust usually reserved for only those special “insiders.”

He was always the first to say, “hello,” followed with a smile and a look that spoke more about his life than any amount of words could ever express. Al always carried my bags out, whether I needed help or not. I’m sure I wasn’t the only one he did this for, because he enjoyed conversation. He enjoyed the simple, yet often overlooked personal exchange and sharing of the greatest gift we have; our time.

The world needs more people like Al. This community needs more people like Al, who are willing to make a positive unassuming impact far beyond the “parking lot.”

Chris Chamberlain